Tony & Lymari Navarro Speaking Topics

• Off the Market: Communication, How our words build or tear down our marriage.

  Are You Renovating or Demolishing With Your Words?

  Every day, spouses use roughly 16,000 words and without realizing it, many of those words are quietly demolishing the very home they're trying to build. In the middle of conflict, couples find themselves asking:

  • Why do we keep hurting each other with the same old words?
  • Is it too late to undo the damage our language has caused?
  • How do we actually talk to each other differently

    • not just want to?

  This session gets honest about the wrecking-ball power of careless words — the name-calling, the threats, the casual use of "divorce" as a weapon

  • and what it costs a marriage over time. We share our own story of pulling the "For Sale" sign off our marriage: trading a contract mentality ("I'll do this if you do that") for a covenant mentality ("I'm here for the long haul, no matter what"). Using practical, easy-to-remember language swaps, we teach couples how to replace criticism with encouragement and complaints with solutions

  • turning words that wound into words that heal.

  Attendees leave with a toolbox of phrases they can use that same night, and a renewed understanding that the tongue can either tear down a home or help rebuild it.

• Renovation Marriage: Building Toward God's "After" Photo

  What's Your Marriage Really Built On?

  Every renovation starts with a before photo that tells the truth, and an after photo that shows the potential. Most couples walk into marriage carrying pre-existing blocks

  • past wounds, family patterns, old survival strategies

  • and stack their life together on top of them, hoping love alone will hold it all up. The real questions surface later:

  • What did we bring into this marriage that's quietly undermining our oneness?
  • Is our biggest struggle really with each other, or is something else at work?
  • Can a marriage built on cracked blocks actually be repaired, or does it have to come down first?

  Drawing from our own story

  • including flipping a house on national TV in six weeks and flipping our marriage over three decades

  • we walk couples through what it means to move from isolation toward oneness. We name the "blocks" every couple brings to the altar, why the most costly threats to a marriage are often the ones you can't see, and why your spouse is not your enemy. This session helps couples see that renovation isn't a single event

  • it's a posture of continually returning to the One who already has the after-photo, no matter how many times it takes.

• Behind the Walls: Healing Sexual Intimacy in Marriage

  In every home, the real structural issues are hidden behind the walls

  • and in marriage, some of the most avoided conversations live there too. Couples quietly wonder:

  • Why does intimacy feel so complicated, even years into marriage?
  • How do past wounds like abuse, shame, and silence

    • still shape our relationship today?

  • Is it possible to experience real healing in this part of our marriage?

  This session opens an honest, respectful conversation about sexual intimacy in marriage

  • including how trauma, cultural silence, and past experiences can quietly sabotage connection. We share our own journey toward healing in this area, why silence does more damage than honesty, and how couples can move toward intimacy that feels safe, sacred, and whole.

• The Renascent Home: Legacy, Impact, Missional Marriage & Family

  What Story Is Your Home Telling?

  Every home tells a story

  • through what's on the walls, what's passed down, what's celebrated at the table. Families in the middle of restoration find themselves asking:

  • Can our home actually become somewhere new, or will it always carry the old damage?
  • What are we passing down to our kids without even realizing it?
  • Is it possible for a broken story to become a beautiful one?

  This session is about what happens after the renovation

  • when the paint is dry and it's time to decorate, tell the story, and live in what's been rebuilt. We share how our own home went from ruins to a place filled with laughter, dancing, and honest stories of God's faithfulness told openly to our kids and grandkids.

  Attendees leave with a picture of "renascent"

  • reborn

  • living: not a perfect family, but a restored one, breaking cycles and building a legacy the next generation can stand on.

• Fight the Real Fight: Conflict, Footholds & Communication in Marriage

  Are You Fighting Each Other, or Fighting For Each Other?

  Some of the most damaging threats to a home are the ones you can't see

  • mold behind the walls, a slow leak, a crack in the foundation quietly spreading while everything looks fine on the surface. Marriage has the same kind of invisible danger, and it shows up every time couples find themselves asking:

  • Why do we keep having the same fight, just with different words?
  • Is my spouse really the problem, or is something else going on?
  • How do we stop the cycle of arguing, shutting down, and getting nowhere?

  This session helps couples recognize the real enemy in their conflict

  • because your spouse was never meant to be it. We unpack how small, unresolved footholds (an unaddressed offense, a sarcastic comment, silence instead of honesty) can quietly grow into deep-rooted strongholds if left unchecked, and we give couples a simple framework for sorting conflict into what to overlook, what to patiently restore, and what to resolve quickly. We also walk through three practical keys to communication

  • creating safety through honor instead of control, listening to understand instead of defend, and turning toward your spouse instead of away -along with tools for forgiveness and apology that actually rebuild connection instead of just ending an argument. Attendees leave with a framework for fighting for their oneness, not against each other.

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