Joshua Harris

Joshua Harris is a Christian faith deconstruction advocate, former pastor and author. He is a speaker at Holy Hurts Events, where he speaks from his personal experience in leaving the Christian faith.

Following his initial success, Harris experienced a transformation in his views and public role. After engaging with critics and reflecting on the impact of his work, he publicly apologized for the harm caused by his bestselling book, "I Kissed Dating Goodbye," and its role in shaping perspectives on relationships. He collaborated on the documentary "I Survived I Kissed Dating Goodbye," which examined the book's legacy and his evolving perspective. Harris directed his publisher to discontinue the book and its sequels, and has since spoken about his journey of personal and theological change, including his departure from both pastoral ministry and the Christian faith.

Harris is recognized for his willingness to publicly reevaluate his beliefs and acknowledge the shortcomings of his earlier work, making him a notable figure in discussions about faith, sexuality, and personal growth. His openness about the challenges he has faced—including criticism, personal loss, and the complexities of shifting worldviews—reflects a commitment to transparency and dialogue. Through public apologies, media appearances, and documentary work, Harris engages thoughtfully with audiences on topics of cultural change, personal transformation, and the impact of ideas on communities.